Benjamin Paul Robert Kalmus

October 7, 1978 - December 30, 2011

Benjamin Paul Robert Kalmus 33, of N5293 CTY A Juneau, peacefully passed away in his sleep at home on December 29, 2011.

Benjamin was born on October 7, 1978 in Merced, CA. to David H. Kalmus and Jean M. (Bloomer-Kalmus) Cears. Ben was a beautiful happy baby with a head full of blonde hair; he slept a lot, ate good and cried little. As a child Ben was a little on the shy side, he was caring and sensitive, and a good little boy, with a kind heart and sweet smile. He attended school at Saint Paul”s Lutheran school in Brownsville and the Horicon school system.

Ben held various factory positions and he also, bartended for his Grandma at Ma”s bar in Oak Grove for many years, until her death in 2010. Ben was currently unemployed.

On October 30, 2000 Ben and Linda Morales were blessed with a beautiful baby boy, Jaydan Clayton Kenneth Kalmus. Jaydan was the shining light of his Dad”s life and they spent a lot of time together, target shooting with B.B. guns, fishing, playing football and baseball, having “camp fires,” and just hanging out playing games, and watching movies.

Ben was a handsome man with striking blue eyes and a charming smile. He had a caring, giving heart and a beautiful soul. Ben had a good sense of humor and a friendly spirit. He possessed the gift of gab; he could and did talk with just about anybody and everybody. He had a huge soft spot for children; children were drawn to him because of his kind and caring nature. The thought of a child being harmed or abused in any way made him angry and physically ill. He also loved animals, especially, dogs and wolves.

Because of Ben”s love for animals his plans and hopes were to continue his education and become a Veterinarian tech.

Ben leaves behind his eleven year old son, Jaydan, of Beaver Dam, his Mother Jeannie Cears of Juneau, his brother Jacob Kalmus, nephew Jacob Jr., and niece Elizabeth all of Kiel, and his special friend and confidant Arletta Jackson of Beaver Dam. He also leaves behind his Aunts and Uncles, Ken and Vickie (Bloomer) Keller of Knowles, Ronald Bloomer of Juneau, and Dawn Romano-Bloomer of Slinger. Cousin”s Aaron Keller of Green Bay, Anissa Keller and her son Levi Fredrick of Fond Du Lac, and Tyler and Dylan Bloomer of Slinger. He is also survived by his Father David Kalmus of Eden, his half brother Ryan Kalmus, his stepbrother Ryan Cears and many other relatives and friends.

Ben joins in Heaven his infant twin sister”s Mariah and Miranda, his stepfather Robert Cears, his Uncle Kenneth Bloomer, his Grandfather Wayne Bloomer, and his beloved Grandma and best buddy, Shirley “Ma” Contois.

We know that Ben”s eternal wishes for all family and friends would be; do not burden your hearts with sadness but instead remember the good times we shared together. We also know that he would wish for you, a life filled with happiness and love. Our lives have been painfully altered with a silent sadness, the days, hours and minutes will be lonelier, but the endless boundaries of time and space will unite Ben”s loving spirit and our everlasting love forever.

Jeannie, Jaydan, Jacob, Jacob Jr., Elizabeth and family would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for all their sincere concerns, kind words, thoughts and prayers during this difficult and sad time.

“Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather, openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.”

There will be a memorial gathering at Murray Funeral Home in Beaver Dam on Friday, January 13, 2012, from 3:00 PM until 5:00 PM. Cremation has taken place.

The Murray Funeral Home, 131 East Maple Avenue in Beaver Dam, is caring for the family. To leave condolences, for directions, or for other information, please visit our website at www.MurrayFH.com.

Visitation Details

Friday, January 13th, 2012, 3:00pm – 5:00pm

Benjamin Paul Robert Kalmus 33, of N5293 CTY A Juneau, peacefully passed away in his sleep at home on December 29, 2011. Benjamin was born on October 7, 1978 in Merced, CA. to David H. Kalmus and Jean M. (Bloomer-Kalmus) Cears. Ben was a beautiful happy baby with a head full of blonde hair; heContinue Reading

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A man of his own words an actions! Always one you can count on when in need. To young to be gone, but will always be remembered! Will live through his son, family and friends..

WELL IT LOOKS LIKE I''M GOING TO MISS YOUR FUNERAL, I''LL BE AWAY. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART...TIMES ARE TOUGH FOR THE FAMILY RIGHT NOW...SO MAYBE I''LL STOP BY IN OAK GROVE AND VISIT TO SHARE STORIES ABOUT YOU....FLY AWAY TO HEAVEN...

Jeanie, Jacob, and Ryan and to the rest of the family. I''m so sorry for your loss. I personally know how you feel, because of the loss of my son Christopher who was also 33yrs. old when he died 4 yrs. ago. My sympathy and my heart go out to you all. I wish I could come to the memorial, and I''m so sorry that I can''t. You all are in my our prayers. Jeanie, my heart aches for you, because no one should have to bury their child. I''m not going to say it''s going to be easy. You have to live one day at a time and it does help to talk to someone. I still have days where I can''t believe it, but I just ask God to get me thru it. Jeanie, if you ever want to talk- I''m here. Jake has my number. I remember when they were in Texas for a couple of months and lived with us. I still can see Jake and Ben with my three on the tire swing or in the sand pile- which was their favorite. We love you all, and if there is anything we can do for you please call. Sincerely, Aunt Margie

My deepest sympathies go out to Bens mom, Jean & his son, Jaiden. Ben was a very special guy in my life when I was younger, we helped each other through some pretty rough times, & he will be missed greatly. R.I.P. BPRK. ~One Love~

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Ben and I had some great times together. He will be missed. My sympathies go out to his family and friends.

We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers in this time of sorrow. The Salata Family

Ben was a good friend to me when we were younger. I miss him. My thoughts and sympathies are with Ben''s family and friends. I am sorry for your loss.

Ben was a special person in my life, sadly over the years we lost touch and I''m sad to hear of his passing. My sympathy goes out to his family I am so sorry for your loss.. Love, Skye and family

Was a good guy and will be sadly missed.

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